It's wisdom to recognize necessity, when all other courses have been weighed, though as folly it may appear to those who cling to false hope.
~ J.R.R. Tolkien (January 03, 1892 - September 02, 1973)
Instead of focusing on the external characteristics of others, you focus on their inner feelings, particularly as it is reflected in their behavior and expressions. You gauge the thoughts in another's mind and the feelings in their hearts by carefully watching what they say and do. When you have this kind of vision, you become concerned primarily with the deeper feelings and motivations of the other person
~ Sri Sathya Sai Baba (November 23, 1926 - )